See the loops. Break the cycles.
Not a therapist. Not a chatbot. An AI friend trained to help you see relationship patterns, and trust what you feel.
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Talk through what's bothering you. Nini listens without judgment and helps you see the patterns you might be missing.
Case Analysis
Share a specific situation, a text, a conversation, a picture that felt off. Nini breaks it down and shows you what's really going on.
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Linguistic markers of relational erosion
NoNarcissAI is built on original research analyzing communication patterns in emotionally abusive relationships. Our methodology combines longitudinal text analysis, behavioral tracking, and qualitative interviews across 270 participants.
Read the full paper on arXiv
Study Overview
participants studied
language cohorts
erosion patterns identified
Text messages, voice notes, and journal entries were analyzed for linguistic markers including hedging frequency, apologetic phrases, self-diminishing qualifiers, boundary reversal patterns, and message length asymmetry.
The research identified a consistent erosion trajectory across participants: baseline communication patterns degraded predictably over 4 phases, with measurable inflection points that preceded conscious recognition of relationship dysfunction.
Your language changes
Words like “just,” “maybe,” and “I think” increased by over 300% in the first 18 months. You start softening everything you say.
Your “no” gets faster to break
Early on, changing your mind took 18 hours. By month 15, it took 47 minutes. Eventually, just 7 minutes.
Your body knows first
Stomach drops, chest tightness, sleep problems, these showed up 8 to 14 weeks before women could name what was wrong.
Proof stops mattering
Every single woman described moments where she had evidence, texts, screenshots, but it still didn’t settle the argument.
These findings form the detection model underlying Nini, pattern recognition trained on real relational data to surface erosion signals in real-time, within the critical decision window.
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